Chad Talks: Cheaters

Cheater, cheater, dirty lying cock eater! There’s nothing worse than your man sleeping with someone else while you’re at home loving him. Is the world over? Is the sky going to fall on you? Should you kill him? How do you get through this awful incident? Well girl, first you need to collect yourself. Your life isn’t over, but now it needs to change. A man is ONLY as good as his word, and yours just broke his promise. Does this mean he doesn’t love you? We’ll get to that later. The main thing to remember right now is that you’ve got you, and right now you should surround yourself with friends and family who will give you unconditional love.

So what, do you leave his lying ass? That’s up to you. Just because someone cheats doesn’t mean they don’t love you. However, they did break the main foundational rule of being in a relationship. Not to mention, they put your sexual health at risk, how fucking gross! Leaving him is about dignity. If he does it once, he’s likely to do it again. I once had a guy cheat on me multiple times and I found out he was literally dating another person at the same time! I left him, maybe you should too! Don’t be his bitch.

The next point I need to make is that this isn’t a you problem, it’s a him problem. Never blame yourself for a man cheating. They chose to go outside of the boundaries and cheat based on their own free will. Don’t let him gaslight you into thinking that you had anything to do with the why part. Men will oftentimes say stupid $h*t after getting caught in a lie, stand your ground and tell him that this is NOT okay. If he starts a rampage directed at you, leave the space immediately. Call someone to come pick you up, especially if you feel like your safety is being threatened.

Lastly, there’s the moving on process. This is the hardest, because you have to accept what happened. Like I said previously, it’s not a you problem. However, you have to move on. Don’t internalize this $h*t and turn on yourself. Some people turn into the stupidest of bitches and start acting a mess during this part, trying to rationalize what happened. Stay strong and keep pushing on! There are plenty more dicks and holes out there, this one just probably wasn’t the right one. You know what they say, when one hole closes, another one opens!

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