Chad Talks: Confidence vs. Cockiness

May 7, 2023
CHAD

How quickly a man can turn me off really depends on a few key factors but the biggest one is when his confidence turns into cockiness. The others are obviously if he’s ugly or didn’t wash his ass but those are for a later post because right now I need to educate you hoes on the difference between being secure in yourself and being full of yourself. The closer you sound to Kanye West or Andrew Tate the further from my bussy you’re gonna get. And if you can’t spot the difference you’re probably either a narcissist or a desperate bottom, sorry about it!

Picture it however you like: in a nightclub, on Grindr, or even a casual conversation at the gym, however it starts there’s a clear fork in the road of conversation that is glaringly obvious. A confident man doesn’t need to put others down to promote himself whereas an insecure and cocky incel does. If a man starts tearing others down to make himself look better or even begins taking sharp jabs at you for self-promotion, run. This man clearly doesn’t feel good enough in his own skin and feels necessary to make his case for why you should choose him based on his own perceived superiority to others. This can be summed up in one word, pathetic.

That’s not all, he will also typically gloat till he’s blue in the face about every achievement he’s ever had and some that he’s never had (they love to lie). This usually looks like him rattling off his income, the people he’s connected to, places he’s traveled, cars he drives, and whatever other expensive amenities he wants to flash in your face. You may be thinking, but what is so bad about having nice things and being proud of them? The difference is he’s using them as a distraction for not having a likable personality or admirable character. Confident men don’t need to distract you, the goods are right in front of you.

So enough about the red flags, the green ones are what we’re after anyway. The confident men won’t hesitate to engage in conversation with you and will stay off their damn iPhone! They can take control in a respectful way that won’t leave you feeling uncomfortable, and they’ll likely share the power dynamic. They don’t need to tell you they have the biggest cock in the room, they have a nice cock and they will show you instead of wasting time talking about it! A bigger flex than talking about how much money you have is just being quiet and putting your card down to pay, now that’s sexy! For me, it all boils down to one simple rule and that is show, never tell. Good luck and never let a man-loser fuck.

Got a question for Chad? Nothing is off-limits! Email me: [email protected]. Until next time!