Bitchy Boyfriends, GOP Family, and STIs in This Week’s Ask Chad

Happy spring, bitch! You know what they say, April showers can buy myself flowers, or whatever Miley said. This round of questions y’all are raw!

This week, your questions got me feeling all types of way. Keep 'em coming! As my Sniffies profile says, Nothing is off limits: [email protected]

Dear Chad,

I had unprotected sex with a random from Grindr and got an STI. I got tested, found out I had gonorrhea, got it treated, but now I don’t know how to tell the guy who gave it to me. I’m so embarrassed about the situation already but now I have to break the news that he might have it too. What do I do?!

Sincerely,

Ring of Fire

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Oh girl, been there a few times. Listen, it’s best to just be honest and tell the guy straight up what’s going on. He may be asymptomatic and be giving it to other unsuspecting sluts as well! Do the right thing and tell him but do it respectfully. Don’t accuse or blame him, inform him that you tested positive and he should seek testing and treatment. Good luck and finish your doxy!

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Chad,

I am writing to ask about how to deal with my conservative family. With all the news circling around about 45’s indictment and the drag bills, my family has become virtually intolerable online and in conversation. How do I deal with them being so hateful but also still loving them at the same time?

With Love,

TransRightsAreHumanRights

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First of all, love your pseudonym! Trans rights are absolutely human rights. And secondly, I know what it’s like to have conservative parents. Even though they have a super gay son, they still watch Fox News and voted for Trump. It’s not easy to have conversations about politics cause I can already guess that they end up messy as fuck but it’s important to put your foot down and stand up for what you believe, especially in times like now. I believe that they’re very misinformed and could use a different perspective. Remember, they’re good people hearing bad takes on current events. Everyone has the ability to change, show them the light at the end of the rainbow!

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Dear Chad,

My boyfriend and I keep fighting. Over and over and over again and I’m sick of it. One minute he’s bitching about the dishes not being done and the next he’s blaming me for everything that’s wrong with us. I try my best and actually put effort into the relationship but, at this point, I can’t stand to even be around him because I know he will find SOMETHING to bitch about. Should I leave or what advice do you have?

Thanks, 

About to Snap

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Bitchy boyfriends are always a buzzkill. How can he ever expect you to want to fuck him when he’s always being such a hateful twat? Personally, I’d have a conversation with him to ask him if he’s happy with me or if something else is going on. He sounds like he’s projecting his feelings with himself onto you and that’s not cute, girl. Tell him to chill or take a hike, life is too short to spend it with an unhappy man. There are plenty of other boys on apps and in bars right now who would love to do chores for you, just saying.

Got a question for me? Nothing is off-limits! Email me: [email protected]. Until next time!