Between The Cheeks: Ryan Carter Talks Passionate Flipping with Michael Boston, Being a Porn Pro & a Good Ho (Vol 1, No 3)

I am Ryan Carter. I'm a porn star and licensed mental health professional, which is a unique combination of professions that gives me quite a bit of insight about what I and others do and why, especially when it comes to sex.

Ryan Carter on set in a promotional pic for studio Bareback That Hole for their movie "Use It."

As a working porn star, I often get asked a lot of questions about porn. The two I probably get asked most are: "what's it like working in porn?" and "what's it like living life as a porn star?" The first question is pretty straight forward with a straight forward answer; working in porn is really just a job. I know, I know, it's not what people usually think of when they think of what a job is. Granted it's a different kind of job than most others. But, at the end of the day, it's still a job. Here's why:

• you need to be reliable—you have to show up when you say you will.
• you need to pay attention, follow instructions, and be able to do what is asked of you (within reason).
• you need to respect the boundaries of others—just because it's a porn set doesn't mean everyone is fucking each other.
• you need to be sober on the job—porn is not the drug-fueled free-for-all it was in the '70s & '80s.
• you need to be likable (jerks don't usually go very far).
• you need to be somewhat open minded—guys that have a laundry list of what they won't do don't often get called back for more work. You gotta be a ho.
• you need to be professional—yes, being professional is a thing in porn and if you wanna succeed you gotta be a pro.

The second question, "what is it like living life as a porn star," is a little more tricky to answer because it's a huge question with an even huger answer—and that answer will be different for everyone. Being in porn, for me, gives me enormous access to sex. Basically, I get to fuck. A lot. I is a ho. I is a good ho. I is a pro ho. I ain't complaining either...not one bit. It's a good problem to have. But managing access to so much sex can be a logistical and emotional challenge. Being a ho ain't easy.

Pro & Ho: I get to fuck super ho Michael Boston!

I have been lucky enough to have done several scenes with award-winning porn bottom extraordinaire, Michael Boston, who has won multiple awards for his incredibly talented and beautiful bubble ass.

Michael Boston is one of the top porn performers today. He and Ryan Carter have worked together on several bareback scenes, with Michael being both bottom (which he is known for) and top.

We worked together on a group scene last year called "Dads & Sons," which was a six-man fauxcest fuck-fest consisting of three 'dads' fucking three 'sons.' The dads were the tops and cast were Digger (my husband), Lance Charger, and me. The three sons were the bottoms (duh) and those were super hot Max Lorde, Zac Snow and Michael.

"Dads & Sons" (L-R in the back) Zac Snow, Lance Charger, Ryan Carter, Max Lorde; (in the foreground) Digger kissing Michael Boston.

Digger and I showed up at the location first, a local boutique hotel in West Hollywood, along with Norbert, our director/cameraman. Then the four other guys showed up, as well as the second cameraman, Frank Siracha. Since the hotel room had a circular bed, we decided to rotate the sons between us and pass them around like bowls of chips. Each son got bare fucked several times by each dad, so no hole went unfucked. Each boy took a hefty load of sperm from one of the dads.

Another notable scene I did with Michael was shot just last week. This time, instead of being a bottom, Michael wanted to top. As he put it in a text right before the shoot, "your smooth muscle daddy ass is MINE!" Now Michael is less known as a top, but he has a really, really nice uncut dick that shoots big, 20-something loads.

Michael arrived right on time, as he usually does (successful porn stars are fairly punctual). My super good friend and drag queen in Long Beach, Lucinda Rear, had told me a while back that she's a huge Michael Boston fan, so I FaceTimed her as Michael was getting ready. She was putting on her drag face yet took the call. We chatted for a few mins and Michael was so fucking kind to her—which is another thing successful pros do —they make time for their fans. Michael is a pro, through and through. Norbert, my director and cameraman, sets up all the lights so the room is flooded and bright. It's easier to darken a scene in post-production then it is to lighten one. Plus, with a brightly lit room, everything pops even though it feels very sterile and unsexy. I had taken my 40-minute prep shower earlier to make sure I was a completely ready to bottom—no one wants to be that bottom on set that has a cleanliness problem—no one. You'd be surprised how many 'professional' performers show up to set not ready. The cameras start rolling and Michael and I hold each other tightly and share a deep, passionate kiss. We clearly like each other and it shows! We drop down to the bed with me on top of him while we're still making out. I move to his warm musky armpit, licking the hairy pocket of his pit, smelling his musk. I move to his nipples, while intermittently licking and kissing his slightly hairy and muscular chest. We both feel it. My mouth and hands drop to his  crotch, as I undo his shorts. Dropped down to my knees, I pull his shorts down with both hands while he pushes at the same time. We are eager to get to the sex! His beautiful uncut cock flops out, My mouth works him over and he quickly gets hard, with his cock head pushing though his foreskin. I lick and suck his beautiful dick and get him completely worked up. Michael is a world class bottom with a wold class ass, so I'm not going to let the opportunity pass without eating out his perfect hole. I'm dying to fuck him. So with my dick stiff as a board, I jump up and grab the lube. which isn't really needed after the sloppy wet tongue bath I just gave his ass. I push the head of my dick against his hole and with a single thrust my dick slides right in. He feels incredible, his hole sucks up my cock and wraps me in a warm and wet embrace. Holding my dick inside him, I lean over and kiss him passionately. Each thrust brings us closer and closer, as he gasps for air. I pull out to suck his hard dick and then I slide back in, repeating our previous fucking rhythm. Michael pushes me onto my back and starts making out with me. He assumes my previous position and gets between my legs. He slides into my muscle hole and, while pumping me,  has me groaning and gasping for air—just like I did to him.

Michael Boston topping Ryan Carter in "Boston Harbor," released this week on both their fans pages (see links below).

Michael fucks me hard for several minutes working up his heart rate while I play with his super sensitive nipples. I can feel him getting harder inside me. He flips me over to nail me from behind. I love how his uncut cock feels sliding in and out of me. Uncut dicks feel amazing. I think it's because of the extra skin, which seems to help reduce friction on their shaft so the uncut dicks slide in and out better. Michael pounds my ass until he shoots ropes of cum inside me, leaving a wet sloppy cum hole, which makes my head spin. Two happy pro hos have just been made. It's no mystery why Michael is such a HUGE porn star. Now he's a pro ho we can all learn from!

Michael Boston just shot his load inside Ryan Carter's muscle ass in "Boston Harbor," released this week on both their fans pages (see links below).

Success in Porn is a Combination of Assets

A critical part of being successful in porn is being professional. I've seen many guys flame out because they just don't conduct themselves professionally. I think you gotta be a ho at heart too. I love sex and I'm an exhibitionist: two critical pieces of being a pro ho. But not everyone can fuck so many people and not have it impact them or their relationships. It really requires a great deal of communication to make it work in a relationship. People have a lot of judgments and preconceived ideas about porn and sex and the impact it can have on us. Someone once told me, "a piece of everyone you have sex with transfers over to you." and I was like, "Oh shit,  if that's the case then I'm screwed." I personally don't believe that. I believe that one of the big benefits of being sexually liberated is that it gives one a freedom to explore sex...openly. Basically, the freedom to be a ho. I hope that doesn't sound judgmental because there shouldn't be any judgment in being a ho. But being an ethical and healthy ho requires good judgment. Good judgment means having the ability to ascertain if a sexual romp is a good decision or a bad one.

Making Good Ho Decisions Vs. Bad Ho Decisions

Unfortunately, I can't tell you, specifically, what makes a particular sexual activity a good ho decision of a bad one (sorry!), or even what your sexual limits are. But knowing your own sexual limits is a great start in helping make good (or better) ho decisions and therefore help you move in the direction of being a good ho. However, I can give you a few basic guidelines to help you find your own definition of healthy sexual "ho-ness." In a nutshell, healthy sex happens when consenting adults are aware of their desires, boundaries and limits and are able to communicate them with each other. Healthy sexual ho-ness does not abuse, deceive or exploit another person’s vulnerabilities. Rather, it should bring out the best in you and with the others that you share these experiences with (yes, I ended a sentence with a preposition and my grade school English teacher would be horrified). Here's the thing, marriage and committed relationships are not required because there are so many different configurations of relationships and, therefore, many different ways to experience healthy sexual ho-ness. Sexual ho-ness is healthy when it’s spiritually nourishing, shares vulnerabilities, is honest, broadens our horizons, connects us, feels good and, most importantly, when it’s genuinely fun. My hope is that everyone gets to experience the kind of sexual ho-ness and liberation that I have experienced. Most of us thrive when we have access to fun sex. So let your ho flag fly! And don't worry about being a good pro. Just focus on being a good ho.

Fans page links:

For Ryan Carter:
AllMyLinks.com/RCandDigger
JustFor.Fans/RCandDigger
OnlyFans.com/RCandDigger
TopFanVids.xxx/RCandDigger

For Michael Boston:
Twitter.com/XXXMBoston
linktr.ee/michaelboston

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