Between The Cheeks: Ryan Carter’s HumpDay Sex Column—Porn Stars, Pups, & Psychology (Vol 1, No 1)

WTF is a “Porn Star” Anyway?!
And Are We All Sluts?!

Welcome to my inaugural blog entry and official kick-off for “Between The Cheeks,” where I’ll be giving explicit details as I share about my on-camera and off-camera adventures, and what I’ve learned along the way about what it means to be an ethical slut and porn star—and WTF does that even mean?!

Tatted muscle daddy Ryan Carter (aka "RC") quickly rose to prominence through the Fans pages as part of the sexy daddy duo RCandDigger, with his husband and fellow performer Digger. He is completely versatile and has performed in more than 500 Fans videos as both a top and bottom. His first studio scene was bottoming for legendary top stud Drew Sebastian in “Lost Dads” by Pantheon Productions. He has also done scenes for Icon Male, Treasure Island Media, Bareback That Hole and Raw Fuck Club. Both Ryan and his husband Digger have been nominated for multiple adult entertainment awards, including Favorite Daddy, Best Sex Scene, Best Group Scene, Favorite Newcomer, and Favorite Fans Performer.

Ryan Carter (R) and Digger (L) in leather gear and promoting their friend Ray Dalton's leather line BigD. Ryan & Digger live in West Hollywood, CA, where they are surrounded by a multitude of fellow porn stars in the area. There's never a shortage of hot and willing guys to make a vid with.

I’m Ryan Carter, a tatted up muscle daddy in a sexually open marriage in Los Angeles who is actively working in the adult entertainment industry. This means I am often affectionally referred to as being a "porn star," which is a term that both bewilders and captivates me. I mean, I do work in porn. So that part of the term I understand. But “star?!” I once asked Dallas Steele, a HUGELY popular and successful daddy and legit porn star, "what makes someone a bonafide porn star. He said, “Probably someone who’s done a few dozen studio movies, been nominated several times and consistently performs in porn.” I responded with a statement but with the inflection of a question, “I suppose I qualify(?)” “Oh God, yes, you def qualify.” He affirmed. I felt strangely reassured. Oh, the ego of a porn star—how fragile we can be. It doesn't take much to make us happy or cut us down. In this case, though, I was happy. Dallas is such a sweetheart...mwah!

What really makes me happy, though, is sex. And lots of it. I enjoy fucking so much that I almost missed my first meeting with Cybersocket about this blog because my super hot, slutty collared pup and fellow porn star, Jax Thirio, was staying with us. He was whoring out that afternoon for anonymous loads while I was working in the next room. Talk about torture! I swear on my life, I could smell cum all over the apartment. I got so turned on after listening to some random top pump a big, thick load into Jax's perfect muscle ass; so I marched over to Jax’s room, told him to get on his hands and knees and show me that used, wet hole (six guys had already bred him at this point). Sure enough, cum was leaking out of his hole and seeping down his toned legs. My rock hard cock flopped out of my shorts and landed between his cheeks with a wet slapping noise. I easily slid into him with just spit and no lube. His hole was that wet. I told him, "I only have 5 minutes til my meeting about the sex blog." He obediently replied, "Yes, Daddy." I started pumping his ass, slow at first and built up to a manic nonstop frenzy. Cum from the previous six men was splashing out into my pubes and dripping down my balls. The smell was intoxicating and I could feel myself reaching the point of no-return.

Jax Thirio is top porn performer and is collared by Ryan Carter & Digger, and is now an official member of their chosen family as a collared 'pup.'

You know the feeling, as you're about to shoot, you hit that now-or-never point. The clock read 2:02pm and I needed to bust my nut—NOW. Jax makes these incredibly erotic whimpers and moans when he’s enjoying getting nailed and this was no exception. He mumbled out between whimpers, “Mark me, Daddy!” which pushed me over the edge and I blew a colossal load all up inside his already soaking hole. "Load number seven is in!" Here's a vid of my cummy dick in his wet hole. I hastily yanked up my pants, still leaking cum from my slowly deflating cock, and sadly tossed my hot boy off me so I could tear into the other room to get on my ZOOM call. All this with my taint muscles still pulsating from the orgasm. I jumped on the call in the nick of time, with my editors opening question being, “How’s your morning going, Ryan?” “Well,” I started to stutter with my head still loopy from the intense load I just blew, “...My shorts are wet right now and I smell like my pup’s hole.” I think he about spit his drink out at the screen. “Yes, your new blogger is a total whore,“ I announced with pride.

Oh wow, I got a bit lost in a memory there. Where was I? Oh yeah, what the fuck is a porn star?! I mean, other than a strumpet like me, who gets paid to be filmed being the strumpet I am to my core. My husband, Digger, whom I built my porn career with, on the other hand feels entirely differently than I do about the term "porn star." He wholly rejects being labeled a porn star. He never felt the pull to identify as such, and actually has felt offended when called one, which always baffled me. Whenever a friend or fan asked him if he does porn, he would invariably say, “no,” which usually made me cock my head to the side like a confused dog. His modesty is admirable if not confounding. He says I have "porn Tourettes" (not to mock those living with this condition), because I would often blurt out to strangers in public that we do porn. Never mind that no one ever asked. I just tell them, you know, in case they wanted to know—but honestly, I think few people actually care TBH.

Ryan Carter (R) right after locking the chain - a 'collar' - on Digger (L) . photograph by Anthony Timiraos in Ft. Lauderdale.

When Digger and I started making our on fan vids about 4 years ago, we never thought it would become successful. Hand to God, we thought we’d make a few vids, post them on OnlyFans and JustFor.Fans and we really thought no one would notice. We were advised to put ourselves out there as the sexually slutty couple we are, because that’s what made us unique and stand out. So we created “RCandDigger” and off we went, jumping on all the cocks in porn and diving into all as many famous butt holes as we could. We were on fire, fucking and filming like mad. We live in West Hollywood, which is ground zero for the highest concentration of porn stars, so we had plenty of filming partners. We were making videos faster than we could release them. Our Twitter followers and subscriber numbers spiked pretty quickly and we were suddenly thrust into the middle of the porn industry as two of the more popular Fans performers.

What many people don’t know about me, is that I’m also a licensed mental health professional, with a specialization in sex, relationships, trauma and addiction. I’ve never publicly revealed this except in two Psychology Today articles written by David Ley, PhD, who interviewed me as an anonymous subject for the pieces (click here and here to read them). So I know quite a lot about the topics of sex and will be integrating some useful insight as I go along.

So please check back every couple of weeks to catch my slutty, insightful, blog…I think you’re gonna like it!!

LINKS:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202004/sex-addiction-therapist-porn-star
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202005/my-therapist-the-porn-star
OnlyFans (OnlyFans.com/RCandDigger)
JustFor.Fans (JustFor.Fans/RCandDigger)
Twitter: @RCandDigger @JaxThirio @DallasSteeleXXX @DrDavidLey

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