Chad Talks: Topping Tips

July 9, 2023
CHAD

Good tops are hard to find, although I prefer that I find them already hard instead. Imagine the perfect top, he’s handsome, patient, has a big dick, and most importantly he knows how to use it. I believe you can learn to be a good top by being an observant bottom. You know what feels good in your bussy hole, so all you have to do is practice replicating that, right? On the outside it looks like a lot of pumping and thrusting, but it’s more than that! Just like anything else worth doing, practice makes perfect. Don’t worry babes, Chad has got you covered. Let’s get you into your top era!

Being on top can be a lot of pressure, and no I don’t mean just the pressure on your second hole miss girl. I mean that a lot of tops get anxious about numerous things such as bottom’s pleasure, staying hard, when they’re gonna finish, if they’re performing well, if they’re going too hard or too soft, etc. It’s important to relax and open a clear line of communication beyond moaning and saying “oh fuck” with every pump. When first entering, go slow and tell the bottom to let you know if they need it slower. If you go in too fast and furious you could end up tearing their hole and then it’s gonna be super uncomfortable, so let’s not do that! Be easy and gentle in this stage. Porn is all stage, so don’t try to copy how they shove it in and go to pound town immediately after. Take care of his hole now so you can beat it up later!

Once you’re in, and I mean all the way in, hold it there for a minute. Slowly begin with small strokes and check in to see how he’s doing. Once you’ve got clearance, go ahead and try slow but steady strokes. Now that you’re up to a steady speed, you can start putting in more power and that’s in the hips. The best way I can describe it to you is push your butt out then swing it back into him. You don’t want him feeling like you’re scooting your chair out at the dinner table, so practice your hip thrusts! This will also help if your dick isn’t very big.

Lastly, while you’re blowing his back out, check on him. See if he’s still enjoying it, ask if he needs poppers or a break. A lot of bottoms also feel pressure to be perfect and often go to great lengths to make sure things go according to plan. If they have an accident, don’t embarrass them, just suggest that you guys take a break to clean up. Sometimes they will also push themselves too far to the point where bottoming doesn’t feel good anymore just so the top can finish, so just ask if they’re good to keep going. Now, go try all your new skills on the next willing and able bottom, and don’t disappoint me!

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