F*cking with AJ Sloan: The Edging Guide Edition

This week we are going to push ourselves to the edge and back. Sit back and get comfortable, we’re in it for the long haul. If you have yet to experience the sticky-icky joys of edging then you are in for a treat.

Edging is the technique of orgasm control where you allow yourself or your partner to get to the brink of shooting their load but then dial down the stimulation to avoid cum eruption. Edging can be a solo journey or you can edge with a partner or group. Edging extends the sexual experience, and when the time to cum does come, hold onto your f*cking hat. Climaxing after edging is the type of orgasm that makes you see God.

Edging also strengthens your relationship with the body, whether it is yours or someone else's. Through the practice of edging, you can also create a better connection between the mind and body. It is also the perfect time to practice keeping your mind’s focus on the present moment.

Edging is a great way to increase stamina. No one ever opts for seconds with a one-minute man. Through the practice of edging, you will build your stamina so that you aren’t busting your brogurt before your bottom can exhale their hit of poppers. BLOCKED.

The most common edging technique is the start-stop method, and it is exactly what it sounds like. When you feel you are approaching orgasm, stop stroking or stimulating your cock and let your body simmer down. On a scale of 1 to 10 (1=cock fast asleep, 10=spunk parade), rein it in when you are approaching that 10. The party’s not over yet. Don’t give in to your body’s desire to orgasm. Instead, play with that desire and tease it. In turn, you will increase the duration of time that you spend with that pleasure.

With varying levels of sensitivity from prick to prick, the start-stop method may not be enough for many of you reading this. Never fear, the squeeze method will get you back in the game. When you feel that you are approaching your final destination, stop stimulating and squeeze the head of your cock until you feel yourself subsiding. When you feel you are back to a 4 or 5 you can start to climb that hill all over again.

For my more experienced edgers out there, I recommend the ballooning method. This method incorporates Kegel exercises into the practice. When you are almost at that point of no return, stop stimulation and start working out that pelvic floor. When done correctly, you will see your hard-on deflating and growing, hence ballooning.

Edging is a common practice in the world of tantric sex, which incorporates breath, intention, and mindfulness of the movement of energy in our bodies and our partners’ bodies. Tantric sex also slows things down to focus on the now and enhances the pleasure of the experience. In tantric edging, slowly breathe in as you are approaching climax. While you inhale, move that energy from your crotch up to your head.

Edging is all about being completely in tune with your body while lengthening the duration of pleasure. Take your time and explore your body/their body/any body in new ways. It’s fun, I promise.
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