Ask Chad: Sugar Daddies, Messy Bottoms, & Gay Sex Apps

'Sup sluts? 2023 has been a moment so far. I was a sexy piece of salmon that all the bears in PV wanted, then I got gang-banged in Vegas at the GayVN Awards, and now I'm getting ready to be bear bait again at IBC in Palm Springs. She is busy and blessed.

This week, your questions got me horny and angry, my favorite combo. Keep 'em coming! As my Sniffies profile says, Nothing is off limits: [email protected]

Dear Chad,

I'm in a bit of a situation. My boyfriend is super wealthy and because of that, he pays everything-- our rent, vacations, my car, dinners out, etc. But he's also an asshole about it and likes to lord it over me. He also likes to say he can fuck around because he pays for everything so he's entitled to have his fun, as where I am somewhere between a houseboy and a boyfriend. How do I find balance in my relationship?

Thanks,
Frustrated Sugar Bf
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Hi Chad,

Here's the deal: I'm vers and my fuck buddy was always a top. We've been fucking a month and a half or so (and we're neighbors so at least a few times a week), and I suggest maybe he start bottoming so I can get my top off too. Turns out, he is game to try bottoming with enough poppers, so we try it. And he is messy. But whatever, the first time out, I move on. We try it about 3 other times, and every time a mess. He's already self-conscious about bottoming so how do I bring up to him about cleaning out without him shutting down completely?

Help!
Muddy Top

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Hey Chad - Random questions. My neighbor is so hot and I always see him on the apps. When we pass in the halls or elevator he smiles or says hi, but when I tap or message him on apps, he NEVER responds. How many times can I reach out on Grindr before I look pathetic? Also, why be nice IRL and ignore me on the apps?

Thanks,
Horny Neighbor

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