When it comes to f*cking, the journey is definitely amazing, but the climax is like a pot of gooey man-splooge at the end of a rainbow. We all love shooting our loads. The waves of ecstasy that shiver through our body like a god-sent electric current are one of the most primal and innate pleasures of existence. With that being said, is there ever too much of a good thing?
When a cis-dude cums, their brain goes into a refractory period, rendering them more or less unresponsive to dick stimulation. If only there were other methods of orgasming without shooting your wad and in turn commencing said refractory period… Oh wait, there are! And there are options too! Non-ejaculatory multiple orgasms (NEMO, as is “Finding NEMO,” as in “find your non-ejaculatory multiple-motherf*cking-orgasms, bro!”) and prostate orgasms will have your eyes rolling all the way to the back of your head without setting your dick to Do Not Disturb mode.
When we think of orgasming, we think of spewing forth a hefty serving of freshly whipped heavy cream. In actuality, the orgasm occurs in the 2 to 7-second window before your cock spits out its frothy batch of never-kids. It is the cacophony of full-body sensitivity, fast-paced breathing, and that rush of euphoria that culminates in your crotch. Ejaculation is the final phase where you bust a nut while simultaneously releasing neurotransmitters that send you and your cock into recovery mode.
The first step toward multiple O’s is controlling your pelvic floor. Enter Male Kegels. Kegels are the exercises and practice aimed to increase your pelvic floor's strength and control. A strongly developed pelvic floor will enable you to control your orgasms like Moses controls the Red Sea. Do your Kegels, bro. Click here for my full article on exercising your taint muscles.
There are a whole bunch of lucky bastards out there who find back-to-back orgasms to be second nature, but many others also learn how to. Those who are self-taught do so through the wonderful practice of edging. For you new-cummers, edging is the very enjoyable practice of wanking to the brink of nutting your knickers and then reining it back in. On a 1-2 scale (1 being as flaccid as you’d be at a family Thanksgiving dinner in Ohio and a 10 being a full-blown jizz-blizzard), spend time bringing yourself to that point just shy of a ten and then let yourself subside back down to a four or five, and then enjoy slowly climbing that scale again. **Extra points if you phone in a friend and relinquish control over their touch, but I’m getting ahead of myself.
Awareness of your body is never a bad idea and is crucial when trying to reach multiple O’s. To start, it is important to become familiar with your level 10, that point of no return if you don’t want to blow your load. Awareness of your breath is also key. Use all of your lung space to breathe deep into your belly. Many also tend to hold their breath. Don’t. It is a subconscious way of stabilizing your body and its muscles but it obviously takes away circulation to your most vital of organs in that moment. With that being said, be mindful of your heart rate, and where it is at that point of ejaculation. By increasing your body awareness you will increase the potential of multiple orgasms.
When it cums to cumming, dick stimulation is great, but we all know that several other regions of our bodies will rev us up. Arguably, the most popular is the good ol’ Prostate. Hitting that p-spot just right is a surefire method of reaching an all-body orgasm. Explore your hole, and don’t stop there. Some of us are #blessed with highly sensitive nipples, a.k.a. clitties, while others find their ears or other parts highly erogenous.
I hope that all of you folks out there thirsty for multiple orgasms have learned a thing or two that will help you reach your gooey goals. Remember, practice makes perfect. I look forward to seeing your journeys and results on Twitter. #FindingNemo has yet to be used. Let’s go with that one.
Xx,
AJ ❤️
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