Horny Cousins, Sauna Sex, & Getting Sober: This Week’s Ask Chad

Sup Sluts? I am just barely recovered from CLAW. PSA: if you see me in the sling in the playroom, please don't say hi the next day. It's like when I'm at brunch in WeHo and they say, "Weren't you that go-go boy taking loads at the club?" I was last night; in the morning light, I'm a different boy entirely. That said, CLAW was hot AF. Thanks to Cybersocket for sponsoring that fun and sexy Strip Bingo.

This week your questions were fun and all over the place. Keep 'em coming! As my Sniffies profile says: Nothing is off limits: [email protected]

Hi Chad-

I recently started playing around my cousin. It started as drunk flirting and then, when he got hard, I realized he was at least bi. It's been SO HOT. I'm like the second guy he's ever done stuff with and he can't get enough. We have to sneak around a bit but who cares? So here's why I'm writing, my cousin got a girlfriend and I'm pissed as hell. I don't want to be sharing his dick with some girl from the neighborhood. But how can I be jealous and clingy with my own cousin? What do I tell him without it sounding crazy? He's not out and we're cousins so there's no path that leads to me and him being together, but I want to keep fucking. Help!

Thanks,
Zesty Cester
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Dear Chad,

I love getting off in gym saunas and steam rooms. I love the hunt of cruising in public, especially over hooking up on the apps. The only prob is that you can never have repeat hook ups. I like getting off this way but I crave connection sometimes. I'm almost 33. How do I ask for digits at the gym without looking sad and desperate to hang again?

Thanks
Lonely Cruiser

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Hey Chad

My drinking is killing me. I hate it but it's such a social part of culture, especially gay culture. I don't want to go into a program or anything, just stop blacking out with my friends on weekends. I don't want to be kicked out of the group for being the boring sober one. Any suggestions on how to still have fun but not be a wasted mess all over Chicago.

Best,
Drying Out

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