Between The Cheeks: (Vol 1, No 2) Open Marriage, Open Hole

March 9, 2022
RYAN CARTER

Ryan Carter on set for Nasty Daddy. Photograph by Anthony Duran.

Between The Cheeks:
Open Marriage, Open Hole (Vol 1, No 2)

If you're gonna do porn and have a successful relationship/marriage, there needs to be an honest acknowledgement and discussion about the relationship being open. There's really no way around it, you're simply not monogamous. I've talked to other porn stars about their relationships and some folks—again some—have this idea that they can be monogamous because having sex on camera for a paycheck "doesn't count." This is preposterous, in my humble opinion. The reason you're having sex is pretty much irrelevant. The reality is that you're fucking other people. You can't escape the reality, you're not monogamous, no matter how you slice it.

Ryan Carter lounging in his living room after a "Whore Tour."

In my 30's and into my 40's, I was in a 13-year "monogamous" marriage and it patently wasn't for me. I say "monogamous" with quotes because we operated under a "don't ask, don't tell" arrangement, which didn't really work for me. My husband was a good person, but we weren't right for each other. Or rather, I had started off more sexually conservative and over the years evolved into an unashamedly sexually liberated slut and he remained more steely and determined in his monogamy. Neither of us was right or wrong, we were just different. We grew apart, not together—which happens in marriages when you link up when you're young and still figuring yourself out. Over time, you just...diverge. So when I met my second husband, Digger, I was sure as shit not going to make the same mistake twice. I had a conversation with him on our third date about being open. I told him, "I like you, and I can see this relationship going somewhere but I want to know if we want similar things or not. I want an open relationship, and if you don't that's ok, we'll just be friends." He looked at me, blinked a few times and replied, "I want that too." He later admitted to me that that was a very scary admission for him to make. In his mind, he thought I might be testing him to see if he was a filthy slut who should be discarded for telling me the "wrong" answer. The truth was that I really was hoping he wanted to be sexually open so that we could build a truly fulfilling and slutty life together. THAT'S what I really wanted!

Digger (L) and Ryan Carter (R) in Ft Lauderdale. Photograph by Anthony Timiraos.

Fast forward to the present. One of the ways I assert my sluttiness is, every so often, to do what I call a "Whore Tour."

Ryan Carter, playing with his butt, is totally versatile and has been known to whore out more than occasionally. You can find him on Twitter at @RCandDigger

The Whore Tour

Which is my version of being a traveling cumdump. I drive from hookup to hookup using the sex apps—like Grindr, Scruff, Sniffies and BBRT—to locate and get my next cock and load. Here's how it works: I plan on about 3- 4 hours of "alone time" on a weeknight. I get showered and ready to bottom all night, which means a thorough shower, I pop a few Imodium and lube up my hole before I leave the house. I like to dress in all black...black shorts (free balling), black tank top, black shoes. I feel just a little dirtier and more incognito in black rather than wearing colors. I set up my first hookup before I leave my home. and I jump from guy to guy around the city until I've taken my fill of cock and cum. The last Whore Tour I did, I took 9 loads. Here's what happened...

The first guy was a regular (read: reliable) fuckbud, a sexy blond versatile guy in his early 30’s with a beautiful fat straight cock, who loves to stick his dick in me when he's not pimping himself out. He's good for an easy load and he lives in my area, so he's usually a good guy to start with. I park outside his apartment and leave my apps on while I dart into his place. He leaves the door unlocked and I come in, strip and bend over on his bed, presenting my muscle hole for him. His comes up between my legs, and I feel the head of his warm dick push against my hole. I'm already pre-lubed, and he immediately pushes into me. He sinks his entire cock into my hole and the feeling is incredible—it sends chills down my spine. After a few slow thrusts to open me up, he full on starts to nail me. He's not very verbal, but I can tell what he's feeling because I can feel his dick swell and stiffen as he's pumping my ass. As I was bent over his bed with his cock plunging into me, his blond pubes pushing against my smooth muscular hole, my phone was starting to ping from the other boys hitting me up wanting to fuck. As a guy who understands the art of the "pump n dump" fuck, he doesn't hold back. He fucks me as hard as he can and pretty quickly blows his load into me. He doesn't pull out. He completely unloads inside me. However, no matter how much you try to get all that cum in your ass, a bit always leaks out when your top pulls his dick out—it's unavoidable. He catches the wayward cum in his hand and makes me lick his palm clean, ensuring all the cum he pumped out of his cock goes in my body. I love that he's such a pig, just like me. The hookup and easy sex makes my head spin with delight and satisfaction. Without wiping off and still leaking cum, I pull my black nylon shorts up and, after a quick "thanks, sexy" and "have a good night," I leave and walk back to my car feeling used and slutty, which is exactly what I want.

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— Ryan "RC" Carter (@RCandDigger) March 5, 2022

In my car, before driving off, I check my pinging phone and the messages in the apps. I scroll through and try to answer all the messages. But only a few catch my eye and I made a plan to meet a Latino boy with a fat uncut dick who's staying at a Hollywood Blvd motel. I confirm he's not using drugs or high (poppers and pot are fine—even though I'm 20 years sober and don't partake) and I head over, only 10 minutes away. I park in front of the somewhat seedy motel on Hollywood boulevard at a meter and walk to the room. Knocking on the door, the guy tells me to come in. I open the door to a darkened room and walk in. Nothing is on but porn playing on the TV. The guy is standing in the middle of the room, with his already hard cock pushing against his boxer briefs and a wet spot from his leaking precum. I drop to my knees and sniff his crotch. I can smell his uncut meat and I grab his cock with my lips through his shorts. Using my hands to slowly pull his shorts down until his dick flops out and into my face. He's pretty hard, but his cock head is pushing through half his foreskin, which I fucking LOVE. I open my mouth and suck him off to get him fully erect and the head of his dick fully exposed out of his foreskin. I deep throat him so my face is fully immersed in his pubes. He pulls my mouth off his now wet dick and tells me to lick his pubes and crotch. I love the musky smell and my head starts to swoon again. After some good cocksucking, he tells me, "show me your hole, I want to fuck you." I get up, pull down my shorts and bend over the bed. I pull my cheeks apart so he can fully see my smooth, used hole. This boy clearly loves to eat ass and he aggressively licks and tongue fucks me. I swear, with one graceful movement, he stands up and plunges his fat uncut dick into me. It only takes a few thrusts and he asks me, "You want my load?" "Fuck yeah, load my hole!" I naturally reply, giving the standard scripted response. In about 5 seconds, he's grunting and ejaculating into me. THIS load I can actually feel because it feels very warm. He pulls out and shoots more sperm onto my ass cheeks, much to my sadness because it wasn't being pumped into me. I stand up and then realize he had put on one of my movies. The porn playing on the TV, which I didn't really notice when I came in, was the Raw Fuck Club movie, "Daddy Heaven." I stopped in my tracks as I was pulling my shorts up and looking screen. He grinned and said, "I know who you are. I have been wanting to fuck you." I kissed him on the lips, thanked him, told him I had fun and then left.

Back in my car, I did the same thing as the previous 2 hook ups. I set up 3 back-to-back hookups and meandered my way into the valley. With 5 loads in my now used hole, I hit up one of my big-dicked regulars, a middle-aged white guy with an unusually big cock. His dick gets rock hard and he doesn't like to use lube. I parked outside his home, walked through his unlocked door and found him, as usual, sitting on his sofa stroking his hard 10-inch cock. I drop to my knees and immediately start slobbering on his crotch. I love how his huge cock fills my mouth. It just feels so good. He likes me to make a mess and gag on him, as much as he likes to intermittently put me on my back and plunge his rock hard cock into me. He goes back and forth several times, with me sucking him off and him pumping my hole until he eventually blows a big nut into me. After he soaks me, he likes to see all his cum mix with the other loads seep onto the base of his cock. He makes me lick it all off, which I am MORE THAN HAPPY to do. All that sperm mixes together and smells and tastes incredible. I get dressed and bounce out of his place, back to my car. In my car, my hole feels used, open and VERY wet and there's a strong smell of cum filling the air. I finger my ass and joyfully recall the 6 hookups I just had. I text Digger to let him know where I am and how many loads are in.

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— Ryan "RC" Carter (@RCandDigger) December 10, 2021

The next guy is from Grindr. He's got an all-American look and is sorta new to the gay scene. I think I might be too sexually "advanced" for where he's at in life. But I'm totally wrong. He tells me to come over for a quick load. I enter his address into the GPS and he's only 1/2 mile away. He says to meet him in the driveway. I'm intrigued. I pull up to a house with a few cars parked in front of the garage, with only a few lights on. I walk up, but he's already outside between two cars. He tells me to come closer, positioning himself behind me. He uses mild force (not rough, just dominant) and pushes me over the trunk of one of the cars, kicking my legs apart and pulling his already hard cock out of his nylon workout shorts. I don't know if he's wearing underwear or not, I never see his cock. I only feel it. His dick hits me in the ass. He spits on his hand, wets his dick and slides into my already cum-soaked hole. His dick is so hard, it actually gave me a little bit of pain, but it was a good pain. I was so turned on by the guy taking control, I just allowed myself to be used the way he wanted it. He stopped, pulled his shorts up and told me to leave. Yes, he blew his load in me...but did it so quietly that I didn't know he was shooting in me, until after he was done. I pulled my shorts up and walked back to my car with load #8 in me.

It was about midnight now and I was getting tired and thinking of calling it a night. I drove back to my neighborhood figuring I was done. In my garage, I got a message on Scruff from a neighbor. I walked over to his place, got fucked and bred for my final load of the night.

I couldn't wait to get home to tell Digger about my night! When I got home, I took a vid, "Whore Tour," explaining my night and pushing all 9 loads out of my ass. You can watch the vid below.. And yes, it's ALL REAL!

Talk About Your Adventures

One of the biggest signs of a healthy relationship is whether you can be completely honest with your partner. I'm not saying you need to be doing Whore Tours, but honesty and trust are interwoven and critical to a functional relationship. Digger and I established both from the very beginning because we wanted it all. We were willing to risk losing each other in order to have the kind of relationship where a Whore Tour is not only possible but probable. It's only possible to "have it all" when you're open about your desires. It's not easy to do, because in order to get there, you have to be willing to lose the relationship. I'm not saying you will lose the relationship, but you have to accept that that could be a possible outcome. We can only be completely honest in our relationships, and more importantly in our primary relationship, when we're ready to accept the consequences of our disclosures. I'm not saying it's an easy thing to do, but complete honesty is the only way to achieve and maintain a totally open relationship. Talk to your partner—about everything! This is how Digger became my best friend and how I'm able to do super sexual adventures, like a Whore Tour, and it doesn't cause a problem...it actually brings us closer together because Digger is willing to join with me and come into my world. And that's worth everything to me.

For more information you can contact Ryan Carter through is Twitter, by clicking @RCandDigger or email him at [email protected].