Top 10 (Wait, No, 11) Tips for Hosting a Sex Party

For anyone who's ever wanted to host an orgy or sex party, here's a helpful list of tips that will make your experience a lasting one (and I don't mean stains on sheets):

1. Be clear about your time frame. No one wants to show up and wait. Have a clear expectation of the beginning and ending of your event (2 hours max is good). If the event lasts longer than expected because the sex is so hot, all the better for you and your guests.

2. Be prepared. Have necessaries like condoms, lube, and plenty of towels, as well as access to a shower/bathroom. A fridge full of bottled water/energy drinks doesn't hurt. (NOTE FOR ATTENDEES: a gift of lube or condoms is always appreciated by the host.)

3. Try to accommodate all of your guests. Make sure no one is left in the cold. It's your job to ensure that everyone will have at least one other partner (this could certainly be you). Know your guests' preferences, tastes and desires and do your best to provide multiple opportunities for engagement.

4. Be a good host. Know your guests. Welcome them and introduce everyone. Don't surprise them with a blindfolded bottom if that's not what they expect.

5. Stand and deliver. Unless you have enthusiastic orgy veterans in attendance, it will likely be your job to initiate festivities and bring them to a close.

6. Have a place to retreat. Have a location away from the action where people can take a breather, rehydrate and lightly socialize. Sex can be intense, especially in groups, and a short break helps.

7. Politely encourage your guests to be prepared. One dirty bottom can spoil the fun for everyone else.

8. Make sure there is enough space for everyone on the bed, or wherever it is you're fucking. No one likes to feel like they can't join in because there's no room.

9. Nobody likes waiting in line. Be prepared to suck cock, even in a gangbang. (NOTE FOR ATTENDEES: this applies to you too)

10. Have fun. Don't let the pressure get to you or your guests. Group sex can be intense and a marathon baton isn't necessary for marathon sex. Boners come and go. Make sure you and your guests aren't taking things too seriously.

11. Encourage your guests to cum by cumming first. Someone needs to bring the party to an end and you gotta sleep sometime.

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[This post is part of Fleshbot's Colby Keller Week.]